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How to deal with a marriage crisis?

We all hear from time to time in the media, the divorce rate rising from year to year, and the stability of the family unit is no longer what it once was. Without getting into gossip that many of us can tell many couples to hold that while outwardly, but beneath the surface created many difficulties and crises in many family functioning and quality of the relationship between the couple.

The question is of course really is a way of the world? Is it really only a privileged few are able to maintain lasting relationships over the years. Perhaps those who planned the whole system just wanted us to call for a short time to bring children into the world, for which he created in us a sophisticated system that runs Substances chemical in the brain that cause us to lose our heads and create attraction for a short time sufficient to order the continuation of generations and unloading of our genetic world and nothing more and really long-term relationship over the years is simply not true and not suited to the structure of our mental and physiological.

Well there is no doubt that couples who go through several stages in the life course and the initial contact or talking is really designed to ensure that the initial connection has been established, it really is not easy and is accompanied by many changes and concerns, so he was usually more forcefully. But as the couple was advanced during their life together, they are faced with a different kind of tasks that require adaptation and developing a different relationship with a new and diverse aspects more. Sometimes the initial enthusiasm and replaces primordial experience and a sense of partnership and deep friendship and deeper recognition of the spouse as a result of the years that have passed and shared experiences. When occasionally gave also to rekindle the flame of passion first warming and illuminating the adult relationship. You have to find topics to talk about. You can read here about such topics. Communication is essential for your marriage.

Way to ensure the stability of the relationship is the ability to face the challenges of variables. Conditions such as the birth of a child in the family, change jobs, change of residence as well as changes resulting from developments and changes in the couple's personal and physical changes over the years put the couple in front of new challenges. The ability to take the initial core underpinning the relationship develop it and adapt it to new situations is actually true key to dealing with crises in relationships.

One of the tools to prevent crisis communication relationship is fluid and open, such communication requires attentive listening, studies show that most of us busy and can not really listen to our spouses, often happens first word we guess or interpret the contents of the message while in most cases accidentally fall.